Dialogue

Some really good tips to stay in collaborative dialogue no matter what the topic…

https://hbr.org/2017/05/8-ways-to-get-a-difficult-conversation-back-on-track?referral=00563&cm_mmc=email-_-newsletter-_-daily_alert-_-alert_date&utm_source=newsletter_daily_alert&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=alert_date&spMailingID=17287534&spUserID=MzM2Nzc0NzMw

What makes a group work??

Great article in the NYT about Google’s research into what makes groups so good…  The article is worth reading

What Google Learned From Its Quest to Build the Perfect Team

Here’s a synopsis, I created with quotes from the article…

“But what was confusing was that not all the good teams appeared to behave in the same ways.”

” First, on the good teams, members spoke in roughly the same proportion, a phenomenon the researchers referred to as ‘‘equality in distribution of conversational turn-taking.’’

“Second, the good teams all had high ‘‘average social sensitivity’’ — a fancy way of saying they were skilled at intuiting how others felt based on their tone of voice, their expressions and other nonverbal cues. ”

“Within psychology, researchers sometimes colloquially refer to traits like ‘‘conversational turn-taking’’ and ‘‘average social sensitivity’’ as aspects of what’s known as psychological safety — a group culture that the Harvard Business School professor Amy Edmondson defines as a ‘‘shared belief held by members of a team that the team is safe for interpersonal risk-taking.’’

“research on psychological safety pointed to particular norms that are vital to success. There were other behaviors that seemed important as well — like making sure teams had clear goals and creating a culture of dependability. But Google’s data indicated that psychological safety, more than anything else, was critical to making a team work.”

“However, establishing psychological safety is, by its very nature, somewhat messy and difficult to implement.”

“But to be fully present at work, to feel ‘‘psychologically safe,’’ we must know that we can be free enough, sometimes, to share the things that scare us without fear of recriminations. We must be able to talk about what is messy or sad, to have hard conversations with colleagues who are driving us crazy. We can’t be focused just on efficiency.”